The Bride's Heart

A good wedding shower must have a theme. It is like creating a fantasy world for a day where you let go and enjoy yourself with your bridesmaids.

So which themes are popular? Let’s start with a classic one.

Home Sweet Home

For this theme, all guests are assigned various rooms of the house and asked that their present be appropriate to that area. For example, guests assigned to the kitchen would bring appliances, cookware, or things such as utensils or dish sets, while those with the living room would buy gifts including throw pillows, picture frames, lamps, or candles.

A Day at the Spa

This is my favorite! For the smallest of wedding showers, guests would be asked to bring spa related gifts and be prepared for an afternoon of fun, relaxation, and pampering. Decorate with potted plants, soothing water fountains, baskets of lotions and towels, and plenty of candles. Ask guests to come dressed in their most comfortable clothing, or provide soft robes and sandals for everyone to wear. Have “stations” set up for things such as manicures, pedicure, massages, facials, or even aromatherapy and meditation.

Some other simple, but fun wedding shower ideas include:

• garden party
• pajama party
• tea party theme
• wine and cheese tasting party

Remember, it is not entirely up to the bride to come with ideas. You can also wait for the surprise your maid of honor has in mind for you!